Do you really know the difference between being in love and just attachment? Is it love or is it an attachment? True love is always unconditional, the moment there is a condition, then there is a transaction, which will not fulfill you or transport your love to another dimension, it is just convenience. If you are life then you will love naturally.
We have seen many people labeling their relationship as ‘being in love’, but in due course, you see them splitting and switching, from one to another relationship, terming all of them as love. So, is this just an attachment or is it, love? Love is a feeling that is not something you do, but love is the way you are. If love is not within you, then basically you are without it. Then there is no doubt, the reason why relationships fail, all the time.
When love actually happens, then the whole world comes to a standstill except the two of you. Being in love is the most beautiful experience. Dopamine is a chemical within us, that gets activated when we use drugs, and that same gets activated when we fall in love. Love is like a drug, a high that lifts you up from this world, and creates a heavenly world for just both of you.
People suffer from insecurities of loneliness, that haunts them the most. Fear of leading a lonely life, hatred and envying those who are already in a relationship. Now coming with such a background of mixed emotions, we forcefully bring ourselves to believe that the feeling we have for our partner, is actually love. The naked truth is that it is false, in most of the attachment cases.
There is no particular definition for being in love because it has several meanings for different people and we can’t really tell the difference. But people with experience can tell the difference between being in love and attachment.