Love is when we are engaged in a giving and receiving relationship. Love has no boundaries. Love is a journey that needs to be maintained, with a lot of sincerity, honesty, an open mind and a desire to go to any length, to keep one another happy and not hurt each other at any cost. It’s difficult, but not impossible. There is simply no life without love, hence love is very essential to survive and to carry on. Love is the inspiration which unites all humanity, but it’s not easily available.
Finding someone to love is not a big deal, but the question here is how you maintain the new found love. It’s like buying a car today, is not a struggle at all, there are plenty of loan options, which makes you a proud owner of a car in no time, but to keep that car in a good running shape, one has to really give a lot of time and energy maintaining your prized possession. Same with love, to feel proud of your partner, to feel good, respected, loved and always be in the pink cloud, you need to do the same maintenance.Many go through a lot of trials and errors with relationships, break-ups and split ups are all part and parcel of this true love journey, which finally leads you to the right person, who is worth loving.
When finally realization dawns after a hectic journey, and you happen to find and feel that this person who has come now into your life, maybe the right one, with whom you will spend the rest of your life. So, how do you define this feeling for that person as true love ? Are you sure ? Is this the right one ? Should I commit ? What if it doesn’t work out ? So, like these many question will arise and cause confusion. Then what are the options to know, to confirm and to come to believe, that you are both meant to be together. Remember there are always signs and signals to guide you through this confusion, in bringing you to a conclusion as to what steps you need to take next.
Well, we at NOC provide you with some very absolute signs, which will prove that you have found your soulmate.
1. Being Vulnerable
Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, but it’s actually a strength. In a balanced relationship, both partners must depend on one another and feel they need each other, and appreciate for the support they give one another. Opening up to your partner can make you feel vulnerable and exposed, but this is one of the most important ingredient in a trusting and intimate relationship. Basically by shutting yourself from vulnerability, you distance yourself from the experiences, that bring about a purpose and makes life meaningful for both.